Nobody warns you about it until you are already in the thick of it. Some may say it’s the lifestyle’s best-kept secret, although I wouldn’t consider this a secret most want to know as much as they should know. In the preparation phase, there’s a significant amount of time dedicated to logistics, boundary setting, and… Continue reading The Emotional Hangover
Category: Experiences First Hand
When the Novelty Wears Off
The post discusses the evolution of relationships in the context of lifestyle changes, emphasizing the transition from superficial connections to meaningful bonds. It highlights the importance of authentic relationships over mere physical attraction, encouraging individuals to seek deeper connections and cultivate friendships for a more fulfilling experience in polyamorous lifestyles.
The Unlearning
Rules Are for Classrooms: What 14 Years of ENM Taught Me to Forget When my husband first convinced me to step into this world back in 2012 with the classic line, "It’s just a great way to make friends," I came reluctantly without much direction. Did we need a clipboard with a list of rules,… Continue reading The Unlearning
On New Experiences
The one thing I can promise you is this: if you get into the lifestyle you are going to experience something new at least once, but probably at least a handful of times. For me, it started with a girl, something that never even crossed my mind until it actually happened. Ladies, if you've never… Continue reading On New Experiences
Club Night – First Experience Jitters
Lifestyle clubs, the big scary places for those who enjoy both watching and performing public sexual acts in large crowds of naked people. At least I think that's what a lot of people envision when they hear about a "sex club" or a "swingers club". The reality of it is, most of them are far… Continue reading Club Night – First Experience Jitters