“Everything is simply about having fun!”
Cooper S. Beckett
This little adventure of mine began sometime mid 2012 because my hubby figured out a way to convince me it was all a good idea. His selling point was “it’s a great way to make friends,” and I somehow fell for it. It was a slow start, one that included me creating a profile on SwingLifestyle and eventually chatting with a semilocal single guy, but before I get into all that I should probably give you some additional background on myself and my partner/husband.
I was born in 1980 somewhere in the southern United States, the where really isn’t relevant as I didn’t live there long enough for it to impact who I am. My family moved around some in the early years of my life but we settled down somewhere before 1983 in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania.
When someone hears Lancaster, the first thing that comes to mind is the Amish. Now I may have grown up in a rural part of the county, we are not Amish. I had many of the finer things a child of the 80s and 90s might have. It was a typical life, filled with excitement, disappointment, and electricity. We also traveled by car and I never owned a horse or a buggy.
As I grew into my teens I set my mind on a career path and kept my mischievous behaviors to a minimum. I didn’t have many boyfriends, actually it was probably only a handful that would count for much, none leaving much of a lasting impression on me. I was just a normal gal going about her days without standing out or causing too much trouble.
I graduated high school with honors and headed to a local college where I would pursue my bachelors degree. This was when I met my now husband of more than 15 years. We didn’t meet in school but through work. See I was one of those college students who lived at home and worked part time while taking classes all to help pay for the expenses of living.
It was the year 2000 and I was working at his family’s business. I had actually seen him over the winter of 2019 while he was home for winter break. He too was in college, out of state, and working on his breaks to help the family and earn some money for himself. We never spoke but I watched as he walked around with a small amount of arrogance, he was the owner’s son. That summer I was informed he was going to be working with me directly and my fears quickly diminished as I found out he was far from arrogant and actually a lot of fun to be around.
We went to a movie for our first date, had a summer filled of fun and excitement and faced the reality of him returning to school once September came along. Although we didn’t officially end anything as he left for school we also didn’t officially keep anything going, it was sort of a summer of fun without any real commitment.
It didn’t take him long to realize how amazing I was and how much he missed me. It wa about a month later when he first came home, for his sister’s prom, and during that time he admitted how important I had become to him and we decided to give the whole long distance relationship a go.
I remember spending endless hours chatting on good ol’ AIM (AOL Instant Messenger), sending letters and packages back and forth and even making a trip to visit him during one of my short breaks. We managed to keep connected and continued to grow closer as the years passed, and that became easier when he decided to finish college locally.
We were married in 2005, had our first child in 2011 and decided to explore the open marriage in 2012.
So that brings us to now, I’m currently typing this as the school year begins to wind down and summer 2026 approaches. I decided I want to take some of my adventures and experiences and turn them into something for you to enjoy and maybe learn from. At this point I have no idea what this site will truly become. I have a few ideas of the kind of content I want to include, but there’s the whole balance of keeping my true identity concealed. That mean there will be only stock images scattered through the site and unless I find a way to charge for access, you won’t find lifestyle photos of me around these pages. What you will start to find is stories of my encounters, tips on how to meet connections and all the crazy mistakes single guys make when trying to win me over.
Enjoy this as entertainment, I am not licensed in anything to offer any sort of professional help. I’m just me, living each day to the fullest and trying to have as much fucking fun as possible! Some days are a lot more fun than others, but every day deserves at least a few moments of sexiness.