Rules Are for Classrooms: What 14 Years of ENM Taught Me to Forget When my husband first convinced me to step into this world back in 2012 with the classic line, "It’s just a great way to make friends," I came reluctantly without much direction. Did we need a clipboard with a list of rules,… Continue reading The Unlearning
Author: Jessica
Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Part 2
A huge shout-out to Dave94015 for commenting on my last post and inquiring on the status of the gentleman I met at the club. Let me see if I can summarize the last two weeks or so. The drive home was a mix of deep conversation and general get-to-know-you chit-chat. I was personally impressed how… Continue reading Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Part 2
Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Oh My!
I think I've previously mentioned I've been dabbling in the open lifestyle world for a while now, and I like to think I've had a nice variety of experiences, some good and some bad. I think the foundation of my experience truly lies within my first true experience. As a couple we met a couple… Continue reading Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Oh My!
On New Experiences
The one thing I can promise you is this: if you get into the lifestyle you are going to experience something new at least once, but probably at least a handful of times. For me, it started with a girl, something that never even crossed my mind until it actually happened. Ladies, if you've never… Continue reading On New Experiences
Creating Your Profile – The Personal Details
I can not stress enough how effective a well written profile can be and how detrimental a poorly crafted attempt is. This is not a case of less is best! For me, if I see a profile that lacks effort and information I expect the same from the person attached to it. This is your… Continue reading Creating Your Profile – The Personal Details
Club Night – First Experience Jitters
Lifestyle clubs, the big scary places for those who enjoy both watching and performing public sexual acts in large crowds of naked people. At least I think that's what a lot of people envision when they hear about a "sex club" or a "swingers club". The reality of it is, most of them are far… Continue reading Club Night – First Experience Jitters
A Repeat Encounter
She laid back, slowly, maintaining eye contact as she waited to see how he was going to proceed. It became apparent during their last session that the edge of the bed was an area he enjoyed utilizing. He pulled her down closer to the edge and slid his hand between her legs. He decided there… Continue reading A Repeat Encounter
Creating Your Profile – Swapping Details
So you've managed to find at least one decent photo of yourself to start with, so now comes the part that tells the world who you are and what you're looking for: profile details. Some of this will be fairly easy, some will require a good bit of thought. One part you’ll want to decide… Continue reading Creating Your Profile – Swapping Details
Creating Your Profile – Photos
Anyone venturing into the world of nonmonogamy will need to spend some time focusing on their profile. This is the first impressing many people will have of you as they seek and find potential connections. I can tell you that as of this entry there are many different ways to make and find connections, various… Continue reading Creating Your Profile – Photos
My Introduction
This little adventure of mine began sometime mid 2012 because my hubby figured out a way to convince me it was all a good idea. His selling point was "it's a great way to make friends," and I somehow fell for it.