Nobody warns you about it until you are already in the thick of it. Some may say it’s the lifestyle’s best-kept secret, although I wouldn’t consider this a secret most want to know as much as they should know. In the preparation phase, there’s a significant amount of time dedicated to logistics, boundary setting, and… Continue reading The Emotional Hangover
Category: The Pineapple Diaries
Poly is an Outcome, Not a Goal
Polyamory is often misunderstood as a simple upgrade to swinging. It's vital to approach it organically, emphasizing communication, boundaries, and personal growth rather than treating it as a goal or strict structure.
The Naked Truth About Clothes
Sometimes, a casual conversation delivers a truth so perfectly, you wonder why you never thought to phrase it that way yourself. "With all the nudity, the clothes are actually kinda hot." – D. My friend dropped this gem recently while we were discussing an upcoming theme night at the club. He was scheduled to supervise… Continue reading The Naked Truth About Clothes
The Pineapple Diaries: The Long Game
Patience. Sometimes what seems like a dead end turns into something more—it just takes time. John and I had a friendly connection that began, and for a long time remained, firmly on the main floor of the club. He is a frequent guest and possesses all the qualities I look for in a potential connection:… Continue reading The Pineapple Diaries: The Long Game
The Pineapple Diaries: Half My Age, But He Brought Snacks
My husband is usually the one who sifts through the initial inbox of lifestyle connections. It’s a good system, but when he brought this particular profile to my attention, my immediate reaction was a flat no. He was practically half my age. As someone with over a decade of experience in this lifestyle, that demographic… Continue reading The Pineapple Diaries: Half My Age, But He Brought Snacks
Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Part 2
A huge shout-out to Dave94015 for commenting on my last post and inquiring on the status of the gentleman I met at the club. Let me see if I can summarize the last two weeks or so. The drive home was a mix of deep conversation and general get-to-know-you chit-chat. I was personally impressed how… Continue reading Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Part 2
Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Oh My!
I think I've previously mentioned I've been dabbling in the open lifestyle world for a while now, and I like to think I've had a nice variety of experiences, some good and some bad. I think the foundation of my experience truly lies within my first true experience. As a couple we met a couple… Continue reading Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Oh My!