Read First - Extracurriculars | Part 1: Prerequisites When the applause finally died down and the moderator stepped back up to the microphone to close the session, Janice decided not to linger. While half the room surged forward toward the stage to network or ask follow-up questions, she casually packed up her phone and notepad,… Continue reading Extracurriculars | Part 2: Office Hours
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Extracurriculars | Part 1: Prerequisites
Janice overslept on the first day of a conference. After a workout, she discovers the gym's attractive guest speaker is the same man she noticed earlier.
The Pineapple Diaries: The Long Game
Patience. Sometimes what seems like a dead end turns into something more—it just takes time. John and I had a friendly connection that began, and for a long time remained, firmly on the main floor of the club. He is a frequent guest and possesses all the qualities I look for in a potential connection:… Continue reading The Pineapple Diaries: The Long Game
When the Novelty Wears Off
The post discusses the evolution of relationships in the context of lifestyle changes, emphasizing the transition from superficial connections to meaningful bonds. It highlights the importance of authentic relationships over mere physical attraction, encouraging individuals to seek deeper connections and cultivate friendships for a more fulfilling experience in polyamorous lifestyles.
The Pineapple Diaries: Half My Age, But He Brought Snacks
My husband is usually the one who sifts through the initial inbox of lifestyle connections. It’s a good system, but when he brought this particular profile to my attention, my immediate reaction was a flat no. He was practically half my age. As someone with over a decade of experience in this lifestyle, that demographic… Continue reading The Pineapple Diaries: Half My Age, But He Brought Snacks
The Shift: Deck 14
The atmosphere of the lounge was pure, chaotic energy. We were three rounds deep into a cutthroat game of "Majority Rules," and somehow, I had been nominated as the designated runner for a team staked out on the second-floor balcony. My mission was simple: sprint the answer card down the spiral staircase to the entertainment… Continue reading The Shift: Deck 14
Secrets and Strategy: Living a Double Life
The Scent of a Double Life: Navigating the Suburban Gauntlet By 3:30 PM on a Friday, I’m usually covered in the subtle remnants of a busy school week—pencil shavings, stray glitter, but mostly the mental fatigue of keeping twenty-plus kids on track. To the world, I’m the dependable professional, the one who handles the chaos… Continue reading Secrets and Strategy: Living a Double Life
The Unlearning
Rules Are for Classrooms: What 14 Years of ENM Taught Me to Forget When my husband first convinced me to step into this world back in 2012 with the classic line, "It’s just a great way to make friends," I came reluctantly without much direction. Did we need a clipboard with a list of rules,… Continue reading The Unlearning
Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Part 2
A huge shout-out to Dave94015 for commenting on my last post and inquiring on the status of the gentleman I met at the club. Let me see if I can summarize the last two weeks or so. The drive home was a mix of deep conversation and general get-to-know-you chit-chat. I was personally impressed how… Continue reading Pineapples, Perfume and Poly… Part 2
Creating Your Profile – The Personal Details
I can not stress enough how effective a well written profile can be and how detrimental a poorly crafted attempt is. This is not a case of less is best! For me, if I see a profile that lacks effort and information I expect the same from the person attached to it. This is your… Continue reading Creating Your Profile – The Personal Details