Nobody warns you about it until you are already in the thick of it. Some may say it’s the lifestyle’s best-kept secret, although I wouldn’t consider this a secret most want to know as much as they should know. In the preparation phase, there’s a significant amount of time dedicated to logistics, boundary setting, and… Continue reading The Emotional Hangover
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Extracurriculars | Part 4: Passing Notes
Previous ChaptersExtracurriculars | Part 1: PrerequisitesExtracurriculars | Part 2: Office HoursExtracurriculars | Part 3: Study Hall The morning started as abruptly as Janice had anticipated. Even though she had managed to get to bed a little earlier than usual, the hustle of the day before had left her energy meter sitting well below full. Struggling… Continue reading Extracurriculars | Part 4: Passing Notes
Poly is an Outcome, Not a Goal
Polyamory is often misunderstood as a simple upgrade to swinging. It's vital to approach it organically, emphasizing communication, boundaries, and personal growth rather than treating it as a goal or strict structure.
Extracurriculars | Part 3: Study Hall
Janice's conference experience continues in ways she wasn't expecting.
The Naked Truth About Clothes
Sometimes, a casual conversation delivers a truth so perfectly, you wonder why you never thought to phrase it that way yourself. "With all the nudity, the clothes are actually kinda hot." – D. My friend dropped this gem recently while we were discussing an upcoming theme night at the club. He was scheduled to supervise… Continue reading The Naked Truth About Clothes
Extracurriculars | Part 2: Office Hours
Read First - Extracurriculars | Part 1: Prerequisites When the applause finally died down and the moderator stepped back up to the microphone to close the session, Janice decided not to linger. While half the room surged forward toward the stage to network or ask follow-up questions, she casually packed up her phone and notepad,… Continue reading Extracurriculars | Part 2: Office Hours
Extracurriculars | Part 1: Prerequisites
Janice overslept on the first day of a conference. After a workout, she discovers the gym's attractive guest speaker is the same man she noticed earlier.
The Pineapple Diaries: The Long Game
Patience. Sometimes what seems like a dead end turns into something more—it just takes time. John and I had a friendly connection that began, and for a long time remained, firmly on the main floor of the club. He is a frequent guest and possesses all the qualities I look for in a potential connection:… Continue reading The Pineapple Diaries: The Long Game
When the Novelty Wears Off
The post discusses the evolution of relationships in the context of lifestyle changes, emphasizing the transition from superficial connections to meaningful bonds. It highlights the importance of authentic relationships over mere physical attraction, encouraging individuals to seek deeper connections and cultivate friendships for a more fulfilling experience in polyamorous lifestyles.
The Pineapple Diaries: Half My Age, But He Brought Snacks
My husband is usually the one who sifts through the initial inbox of lifestyle connections. It’s a good system, but when he brought this particular profile to my attention, my immediate reaction was a flat no. He was practically half my age. As someone with over a decade of experience in this lifestyle, that demographic… Continue reading The Pineapple Diaries: Half My Age, But He Brought Snacks